Many years ago, my husband and I signed up for ballroom dancing classes. As we headed to our first lesson, my mind conjured up visions of Brian and I gliding gracefully across the floor.
The reality was far different. In fact, we were so awkward the instructor said she felt sorry for us! It turned out that the problem was me. I unconsciously tried to take the lead. Only one can lead and it wasn’t my job.
I was told to close my eyes and trust my partner. When I did that, our movement became smooth. Once confident I could follow Brian’s lead, I’d open my eyes again. Whenever we were out of step, it was because I was fighting for control. I spent a large part of our lessons with my eyes closed!
I’ve discovered this also applies in my relationship with God. I have a tendency to want to go my own way (or lead) and expect God to follow. The habit of thinking I know what’s best is a hard one to break. What is needed of me is to close my eyes and trust.
This is required even more when I’m in a season of uncertainty. I may not know what direction to take but as long as I follow His lead and stay in step with the one who knows the dance of my life, I need not be concerned. God knows where He is taking me and His ways are better than anything I could imagine.
“I know the plans that I have for you, declared the Lord. They are plans for peace and not disaster; plans to give you a future filled with hope.” Jeremiah 29:11
Dear Tandy:
Wonderful words of life. You are blessing others as you keep learning. Always learning. Always looking into God’s Word for guidance. I love you, dear Tandy. Cousin Shirley
There is so much to learn!
Thank you Tandy. I add my amen!
Lois
Sometimes these lessons need a lot of practice!
SO TRUE!
I’m working hard at not stepping on God’s toes in this dance of life!
Thank you for this message, Tandy. I can so identify on both fronts–the dance class with Hank and living solo after he passed. I still try to take the lead, but life goes more smoothly when I trust in the Lord rather than relying on my own understanding, when I acknowledge God in everything I do. Then God will lead me on the right paths. Letting God take the lead should be uppermost in my mind at all times. Maybe I’ll have to close my eyes in prayer.
Thanks for your response, Sharon. It seems like we’re kindred souls here.